REPLY / ANSWER ME 1997 QUOTES
“When you like someone, you have eyes for her in the sides and the back of your head. And that if you don’t knock, there will be no answer. Standing in place will not get you what you want. There’s no such thing as fair play anymore.” – Yoon-Jae
“The easiest thing we can do for the person we love is to throw ourselves away. The strength to do things that aren’t in our nature — that’s love.” — Yoon-Jae
“Go Stop, a game where you have to match the same shapes to get points. There was a time when we struggled to be the same. But in one moment, we began to be different. That we were becoming different types of people — why was that so hard to acknowledge back then? People are all different; that’s the law of the universe, the law of human growth. Eighteen. We were maturing into different people, and having to accept those differences meant we were faced with yet another consequence of growing up.” – Yoon Jae
“Anyone’s secret tells a truth that I could not have known. And then when what I knew is no longer real… secrets have more power. How much of what I know is actually true?” – Shi Won
“A person’s heart has countless levels. Its depth cannot be known. Its limit can’t be known. You could fight to the death, and then exchange affection as if nothing ever happened. A red-blooded male could turn into an imbecile in front of the opposite sex. Yes, the truth is uncomfortable. But if we don’t embrace that discomfort, then we must live the rest of our lives believing what’s fake to be real. Even uncomfortable truths must be embraced. What you see is not everything.” – Shi Won
“Bumping into someone on the street, reaching for the same book at the library, or running under someone’s umbrella… I thought that falling in love would be special. I couldn’t imagine… that I’d fall because of something like this. Spring of 1996. My first love began that suddenly.” – Yoon Jae
“This life that might leap anywhere — there’s no use avoiding or ignoring it. There’s just facing it and getting beaten to a bloody pulp. But at times life can surprise us with gifts that make our hearts flutter. And if we endure sadness, we are rewarded with happiness.” – Yoon Jae
“You have to be content with a dream that’s close. If you chase after one that’s far away, your heart will hurt and your insides will burn. A futile passion only leaves heartache. That’s why life’s stupidest thing is a one-sided love. But the reason that stupid one-sided love is worth trying is… that passion can sometimes make miracles happen… sometimes go the long way around to help you fulfill a dream… and even if it doesn’t allow you to realize that dream, it allows you to linger near it and find happiness.” – Tae Woong
“They say that people are born with a red string that they can’t see, tied to their pinky fingers, and the end is tied to the one you’re fated to be with. But the thread is twisted this way and that, making it hard to find the other end.” – Yoon Jae
“People’s countless threads, all tangled together. But when I start to unravel it, I end up face to face with my fate, without even knowing it. If the red thread of fate really exists, then who is the one tied to my red thread?” – Yoon Jae
“The reason I like you? Because you’re that person. Because you’re you. Is there another reason besides that one? I’d rather know the reason if there was one. Then I could find a way to not like you. If I can’t avoid it, then there’s only one thing I want: to remain by your side, unchanged, for long time. Here’s to our love, that chills our hearts.” – Joon Hee
“Liking someone isn’t a choice. It comes from your heart.” – Joon Hee
“Why are you sorry? It’s not like you can choose who you like.” – Joon Hee
“Since the day of that accident, I lived having completely forgotten the fact that I was someone’s son. A relationship determined before I was born, a relationship that ends against my will – that’s family. And now I only have one family relationship left.” – Tae Woong
“There are relationships of differing levels of difficulty. To me, Yoon-jae was the easiest of them, to explain or to maintain: that of childhood playmates. But on this day, contrary to everything I knew, I discovered… that there might be the possibility that we’d be the most difficult kind of relationship in the world. The relationship with the highest level of difficulty: that of a man and a woman.” – Shi Won
“Each expecting different things, each looking at different places, each dreaming different dreams… everything that happens between one man and one woman, is just continuous love and war. You sulk, you pacify, you fight, you make up, you hurt, you embrace. A relationship like a manic-depressive patient who can’t make up his mind. But the hardest thing about the relationship between a man and a woman is the timing — if the love doesn’t begin at the same time, it’s unlikely to ever begin at all.” – Yoon Jae
“The one benefit to that top-degree-of-difficulty relationship between a man and a woman is… one word can overturn its mood at any time.” – Hak Chan
“What should I do? There are two people I love the most in the entire world. One is my hyung, who gave up everything because of me. And the other is you. It’s you… and hyung says he likes you. A lot. Like I do.” – Yoon Jae
“The reason my teen years are like a rushing wind is because I don’t yet know the answers: what it is I really want, who really loves me, who is it that I love. The time of life when I tumble here and there, searching for the answers. And then in the end, the moment when I figure out the answers to everything like a miracle… we had already become adults, and been doing big and small things. And like that, that winter was full of goodbyes.” – Shi Won
“My body remembered my ’90s. The moment I saw the person I had once been crazy about, I immediately returned to that ’90s fangirl, and my ’90s, which I thought were over, began all over again…” – Shi Won
“Oppa, I like you a lot… but my heart doesn’t race or flutter. I’m still young so I don’t know exactly how it feels to like somebody, but my heart now… is beating in a different direction. I’m sorry, oppa.” – Shi Won
“I’m not expecting anything right now. I’ll wait. Until you like me a lot… I’ll be your daddy long legs. Like now, always… next to you.” – Tae Woong
“I had forgotten. That if she liked something right now, she expressed the fire of that moment directly, and without hesitation. I could’ve just said: I like you. Be mine. I could say it like that right now. Back then, and even in this moment… I was just hesitating.” – Yoon Jae
“There is nothing more urgent than now. Because later might never come. Life isn’t long enough to speak of the next opportunity, rather than the now that’s before our eyes.” – Yoon Jae
“If you give up on now because of laziness or a lack of courage, there is no hope of another opportunity. If you love now, the best timing is now. You have to go before it’s too late, and you have to confess now. Because you never know what’ll happen later. The next opportunity might never come.” – Yoon Jae
“I’m sorry. You must’ve had a hard time too. But I only thought of myself. And I’m the only one you told everything to, because you thought of me as a friend. I don’t even know what I’m doing to you right now. I’m sorry.” – Shi Won
“She could have not known. There are times in life when you don’t know… that someone likes you.” – Joon Hee
“Then the game’s already over. No matter how much you think it over, there’s no answer. You already like her. So what choice is there? What decision to make? Don’t regret it later. Don’t use Hyung as an excuse. Do as your heart tells you.” – Joon Hee
“A person’s heart can’t be turned on and off like a switch. Once it’s turned on… it won’t turn off.” – Yoon Jae
“First love. The reason everyone’s first love is beautiful is not only because the love was pretty. At the time of first love, there was a youthfulness that didn’t know how to be wise, a me who was pure to the point of cruelty, and a you whose fire I couldn’t handle. It’s because I already know that I can never go back to that youthful, innocent, passionate time.” – Yoon Jae
“First love is reckless. Without calculating, it throws everything in with pure passion, and inevitably fails. But that’s why it’s dramatic — the reckless tales wrapped up in experiences or feelings that you can never have again.” – Yoon Jae
“First love is a time. Once it passes, it’s gone. Now you have to give a new love and a new time a chance. It might not be the experience or the purity of first love, but out of that scar is a love that grows and becomes a little more mature — you have to wait for an adult love. Only those who wait can dream of love.” – Yoon Jae
“When romance passes, life comes. Purity gets dirtied, passion freezes over, and youth turns to shrewdness as you age. That innocent era’s first love becomes fatigued and exhausted daily routine… and is why first love appears to be something that can’t be realized. Because those who succeed at realizing their first love… don’t tell you.” – Yoon Jae
“Succeeding at first love is nice too. There’s comfort that’s even better than your favorite sweater, but also an excitement that you can find when you’re tired of that comfort. As childhood playmates, as first loves, as lovers, and as husband and wife, we live through the same times, share the same memories, and grow old together. A familiar excitement. It’s nice.” – Yoon Jae"
'Có một câu nói trong bộ phim My black mini dress tôi rất thích thế này: “Khi ta vào khoảng hai mươi mấy tuổi, tuyệt đối không thể nào nhẹ nhõm được đâu.”
Tuổi hai mươi mấy, mọi thứ đều dang dở. Công việc không ổn định, tình cảm không ổn định, mối quan hệ nhiều nhưng thật sự không bền chắc….
Đang ở độ tuổi 20+…trung bình 1 tháng “nặng nề” đôi lần. Và đúng là cái gì cũng dở dang, lưng chừng :).
“Con gái yêu bằng tai..”, trước giờ em luôn bị đánh gục bởi những ai dẻo mỏ hay khen, chăm nói mấy câu sến sụa trên trời, hợp thời lãng mạn chiều lòng .
Anh thì tuyệt nhiên không vậy, không khen, không nịnh, nửa đùa nửa thật hay chê, hay trêu em đủ điều, khiến em thấy mình khiếm khuyết và thiếu xót đến phát tệ. Có giận dỗi bực mình thì cũng lại tự hết, chẳng dỗ dành, chỉ bảo “hâm”.
Nhưng mỗi lần em gọi cho anh chỉ để nói linh tinh, dù chẳng có chuyện gì, dù anh đang bận việc, đang buồn ngủ vô cùng, thì vẫn luôn lắng nghe tới lúc em… chịu dừng. Chưa một lần ngắt đoạn.
Hôm nay, luyên thuyên xong em lại thấy mình thật phiền, làm lỡ việc của a, nói với anh sẽ im lặng không làm phiền. Anh mặt lạnh te, bảo, anh là của em, anh không nghe thì ai nghe chứ. Em là của anh, em không ríu rít với anh thì sẽ với ai chứ.. Cứ nói những gì em thích, chỉ sợ một ngày không còn gì để nói và muốn nói với nhau..
Anh không bỏ em lại một mình.
Chỉ mấy câu đấy thôi, mấy câu đấy thôi..
"- …Cô biết những điệu nhảy bên đống lửa của thổ dân không? Người ta nghĩ đó là một nghi thức, nghi lễ, một bữa tiệc. Nhưng khởi thuỷ, đó chỉ là sự tập trung của những sinh vật yếu đuối trong tự nhiên, hợp lại bên ánh lửa và hò hét để xua đi sự sợ hãi bóng tối.
- Con người nghĩ họ sẽ hạnh phúc lắm nếu biết được hết mọi quy luật của thế giới. Họ muốn được biết trước tương lai, nắm lấy cơ hội, như trúng số vậy. Nhưng sự thực, việc biến thế giới thành một ảo vọng lại giúp nó tồn tại. Họ sẽ chết khiếp nếu nhìn thấy sự thật về thế giới đang vận hành như thế nào. Cô sẽ nghĩ gì nếu cô biết cô chỉ là một con cờ vô danh trên bàn cờ? Ngay cả khi cô là quân vua, mọi thứ cô làm vẫn chỉ ở trong tay người chơi. Điều đó không dễ chịu chút nào đâu. "